It started with a "rash." My youngest was born with the typical flaky,splotchy newborn skin. But some areas, skin flaked away and underneath the new skin appeared discoloured. Brown splotches showed in strange places. They could've been birthmarks, but there were so many, and they kept coming.
I mentioned it to the Public Health nurse at a checkup. "Perhaps check with your doctor," she said, unable to identify the rash.
So we didn't rush because he wasn't bothered. But a couple weeks later I left the doctor's office ashen-faced clutching a long list of test requisitions and specialist referrals in my hand.
I remember that night sitting at a book club meeting (one of the last I would go to as the coming months became consumed with medical appointments) and telling the other women "this is ridiculous. There's nothing wrong with him!"